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The Science (and Struggle) of Gratitude — A Thanksgiving Reflection from Lake Area Psychiatry By Eric Rachal, APRN, PMHNP-BC



November 27, 2025

Author: LakeAreaPsychiatry


Gratitude isn’t just a seasonal mood — it’s brain science. When practiced, it lights up a whole network

of the brain — areas like the prefrontal cortex (focus and perspective), anterior cingulate cortex

(empathy and emotion regulation), and reward centers that release dopamine, serotonin, and

oxytocin. That means gratitude literally trains your brain to find balance and calm more easily — like

strengthening the mental muscles that notice good amid difficulty. Still, for many, this season doesn’t

feel grateful — it feels heavy.

“You may say…”

• “How does daily gratitude impact me?”

• “I have nothing to be thankful for.”

• “I hate the holidays.”

• “I have no family or friends to depend upon.”

• “I know I should be thankful…”

Those thoughts are real — and they deserve space. They aren’t weakness; they’re protective

distortions, your mind’s way of bracing against pain or disappointment.

 

When Gratitude Feels Out of Reach

Sometimes personal gratitude feels impossible. When that happens, shift your focus outward —

toward community gratitude.

• Thank a coworker, even for something small.

• Compliment a stranger.

• Donate time or goods to someone who needs them.

• Support a friend’s small business.

• Send a text that says, “Thinking of you.”

Each of these small actions still activates your brain’s gratitude network — especially those empathy

and reward circuits. Even when your emotional tank feels empty, your neural network still responds to

kindness. That’s the quiet magic of gratitude: it heals inwardly when practiced outwardly.

 

Positive Psychology Meets Practice

Research shows that gratitude expressed outwardly improves well-being for both giver and receiver.

It becomes a feedback loop — each act of appreciation releases the same calming neurotransmitters

that stabilize mood and deepen connection.

CBT Implementation — Small Steps, Real Change

• Identify 5–10 things or people you can appreciate or support.

• Write, say, or act upon them.

• Focus on noticing rather than forcing a feeling.

• Reframe cognitive distortions: “Even though today feels empty, I’m grateful I can still

contribute to someone else’s day.”

That’s gratitude in motion — not forced positivity, but compassion through action.

 

Start Today — Simple Gratitude Habits

• Morning: Before your phone, name one thing that still works — your breath, coffee, sunlight.

• Midday: Thank one person — in person, text, or silent thought.

• Evening: Write one line: “Today, I’m grateful that ___.”

That’s it! Three quiet moments that gently strengthen your brain’s gratitude network. With repetition,

these small daily cues train your brain to interpret stress differently — less threat, more steadiness.

Repetition Builds Resilience!

You don’t need ten new things every day — repeating the same gratitudes works beautifully! Each

time you name what you’re thankful for, you reactivate your brain’s gratitude circuit: the prefrontal

cortex (focus), anterior cingulate (emotional balance), and reward centers (dopamine and serotonin

release). Repetition is like strength training for your mood — it builds a stable, reliable pathway that

your brain can return to when stress hits. Consistency matters more than creativity; what’s familiar

becomes foundational. Over time, your brain learns to look for stability and connection automatically,

even in hard seasons.

 

Our Message to Southwest Louisiana

At Lake Area Psychiatry, we’re grateful for our patients, colleagues, and community. Every client who

trusts us with their story teaches us something about resilience, hope, and healing. Gratitude here

isn’t abstract — it’s seen in every shared story, every act of care, and every small kindness that

keeps SWLA thriving. Please share this message so we can reach more hearts across our region.

 

From all of us at Lake Area Psychiatry —

Happy Thanksgiving

May gratitude, expressed through community and connection, renew both your mind and your neural

network.

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